One of the many goals I set for myself as a Muslim convert parent was to offer my children an opportunity I never had growing up: the chance to learn Arabic. Anyone who has attempted to study a new language as an adult, particularly one with an entirely different alphabet, knows how demanding that process can be. It is certainly not an easy endeavor for a non-native speaker, yet it is far from impossible. In several verses of Surah Qamar, Allah intentionally repeats the phrase, “And We have certainly made the Quran easy to remember. So is there anyone who will be mindful?” (Quran, 54:17, 22, 32, 40). While memorization is facilitated by the Quran’s accessibility, repetition, and rhythmic qualities, mastering the Arabic language itself remains a formidable undertaking. This reality prompted me to give my children an early start. Even so, I soon realized that although children absorb language quickly, without ongoing, consistent exposure, it can easily slip from their grasp.
I currently have children at various ages and stages, from preschool through college, and each child differs in how they comprehend Arabic. Some can read and write it, others know only Quranic Arabic and what is needed for their daily prayers, and the youngest recognize only a few letters and words. None of them is fluent. Does that sadden me? Sure. Am I disappointed that they have not mastered the language? Not really, because I understand how difficult it can be. I am genuinely proud of the progress each of them has made. Their ability to learn Arabic is determined mainly by the environment in which they were raised and the opportunities available to them, rather than by effort alone. Neither their father nor I is a native Arabic speaker, we live in an English-speaking country, and we do not have Arabic-speaking family or friends nearby.
One thing I have learned over the years is that any progress in Arabic is meaningful progress. Once we understand that lesson as parents, our attitude can shift from disappointment to determination. With that in mind, I have discovered several helpful strategies and a few pitfalls to avoid when nurturing a child’s connection to the Arabic language.
The following ten tips reflect what has worked in our home and what I have observed in other families who have found success:
1. Make your intention sincere
The primary goal of learning Arabic is to be able to read, and most importantly, understand the Quran. When children see that the purpose is rooted in faith and sincere intention, it helps foster a deeper, more meaningful connection to the language.
2. Start early, but stay consistent
The younger the children are when they are exposed to a new language, the easier it is for them to absorb it. However, unless Arabic remains a consistent part of their lives, it can easily fade. Consistency is key, even if the lessons are short or simple. If your child begins learning at an older age, that is perfectly fine. Continue to encourage their efforts and avoid criticizing them for not learning as quickly as you might hope.
3. Any progress is progress
Sometimes children remain in the foundational stages for a long time, but small steps still count. I remember when one of my children could not get past the Qaidah. At one point, a friend even suggested that he might be dyslexic. It was frustrating for him, for his teachers, and for us as parents. Yet with patience and steady effort, he eventually moved forward and began reading from the Quran, alhamdulillah.
Whether it is learning a new letter, recognizing a familiar word, or remembering a short phrase, every bit of progress matters. Celebrate the effort, not just the outcome. It is also important to remember that, just as with any other subject, learning differences or disabilities may play a role, and seeking support when needed can make the journey smoother for both parent and child.
4. Find immersion programs if possible
The best way to learn any language is through immersion. If an immersion program is too expensive or unavailable, consider enrolling your child in an Arabic course or working with a tutor. Not every family can afford Islamic school, weekend school, or private lessons, and that is completely understandable. Explore free or low-cost resources in your community. You may be surprised to learn that some generous individuals sponsor children’s Arabic and Quran classes or offer instruction free of charge.
5. Learn Arabic along with your children
I cannot stress enough how motivating it is for children to see their parents or older siblings learning alongside them. When the entire household participates, the experience feels less like a chore and more like a shared family effort or even a fun challenge. You can set goals together or create friendly competitions to see who learns the most.
6. Read Arabic books and watch Arabic shows together
Just as reading in English or your native language strengthens literacy skills, reading together in Arabic helps children recognize letters, sounds, vocabulary, and basic grammatical patterns. Regular exposure to Arabic books, even simple ones, reinforces what they learn and builds confidence over time. You can also supplement reading with Arabic shows, movies, or songs to keep learning fun and enjoyable.
7. Download apps for Arabic learning
Language-learning apps provide extra practice and a convenient, portable way to reinforce skills. Tablets or phones can make it easy for children to practice letters, vocabulary, and simple phrases anytime, anywhere. Many apps also turn learning into games, which can help keep children absorbed and motivated. There are also plenty of videos on YouTube with simple lessons for all ages.
8. Consider traveling abroad for immersion
Spending time in an Arabic-speaking country, even for a summer, can dramatically accelerate language learning. Countries like Egypt and Saudi Arabia offer programs specifically for families to learn Arabic. When I had my first child, I had the opportunity to live in Egypt for a year, which was a wonderful experience. My son was too young to learn conversational Arabic at the time, but I know that if we had stayed longer, he could have become fluent. I also advised some friends about programs in Egypt, and at least two families took the opportunity to live there for a short period; their children picked up Arabic quickly. Even a few months abroad can make a noticeable difference.
9. Practice, practice, practice!
Speaking a new language requires consistent effort. Listening, reading, and speaking help children develop the “muscle memory” needed for language to flow naturally off the tongue. Consider finding a practice buddy for your child. It could be another child or even an older Arabic-speaking adult who would enjoy the company and conversation.
10. Prepare for a long-term commitment
Learning Arabic, like any language, takes time, patience, and regular practice. Burnout is real and can affect children and parents alike at any stage of the process. Remember that you are not alone, and even small efforts along the way are valuable and will be rewarded in time. Consistency, encouragement, and perseverance are key to long-term success.
One of the righteous predecessors, Ibn Shubrumah, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “Men have never worn a garment more beautiful than Arabic” (Al-Bayhaqi, Shu’ab Al-Iman, Vol. 4, p. 197). Indeed, Arabic is the language of the Quran and of our Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him. While not everyone will attain complete fluency, we should strive to learn at least Quranic Arabic and encourage our children to do the same. The preservation of the Quran in its original language is a miracle and a blessing for all Muslims, making it an honor and a privilege to study and safeguard. Make your intention sincere, and you will be rewarded for your efforts, no matter the outcome. May Allah make the journey easy for you and your family. Ameen!
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