schools vs. Public schools
Seven-year-old Zaahirah Abdullah has a passion for nose rings and bellybutton
rings, thanks to her friends and a favorite teacher at Pyrtle elementary
school in Lincoln, Nebraska.
"She's really into style," says her mother Najla Abdullah,
who attended the same public school as a child. "I can see I really
need to build Islamic fundamentals with her," she adds earnestly
in an interview with Sound Vision.
Zaahira's interest in body ornamentation through the influence of friends
and her teacher speaks to the power of public schools in shaping the
attitudes of most Muslim children in North America.
Zaahirah is one of the 99 percent of Muslim children in the United States
who attend public schools. And it's her generation over whom the debate
about sending Muslim children to Muslim or public school currently rages.
Better environment in Muslim schools
The strongest argument in favor of sending children to Muslim schools
is the presence of an Islamic environment. Muslim kids in most of these
schools pray, interact with other Muslim children in classes and during
breaks. They also generally have less exposure to sex, drugs, alcohol
and violence. In addition, Muslim schools are a place to build identity
"Had one [a Muslim school] been available in the city, they would
definitely have sent me," says Abdullah of her parents. "I
think they would definitely have wanted me to have that sense of camaraderie,
and that strength of people around you who are of the same faith and
are there to support [you]."
"A Muslim school is the only place where they [Muslim kids] will
ever have the chance to develop an identity that says, "Hey, these
are my people. I belong to an identifiable community,'" writes
New-York based Muslim school teacher Yahiya Emerick in an e-mail interview
with Sound Vision. He has worked full-time in two Islamic schools, one
in Michigan and the other in New York. He has also authored the book
The Complete Idiot"s Guide to Understanding Islam.
Muslim schools give students a sense of self-worth, pride and cultural
identity they could never get in a public school, said the late Sharifa
Alkhateeb, president of the Muslim Education Council in Virginia.
The organization educates educators and administrators about Islam,
Muslims, Muslim families and Middle Eastern culture.
A sense of identity comes not just from being with other Muslim kids
but also with the memories of praying, hearing the Adhan and discussing
Islamic issues. For the child, "that's invaluable," Alkhateeb
The perception of Muslim schools as "holding
"What usually happens is that when Ahmad Doe realizes his kid is
turning into a foul-mouthed wretch with bad values and such, they look
for a quick fix and toss him in an Islamic school. In one school
I worked in, fully a third of the kids fit this description," writes
This is the double-edged sword of providing a comparatively better environment
than most public schools. It has led to some parents of kids who have
gotten out of control in public school to dump them into Muslim schools.
Alkhateeb said this leads parents to seeing these schools as "holding
tanks" that will take control the bad influence of public schools
on their kids.
Emerick, who has experienced first-hand such casualties of the public
school system adds, "to all who complain about Muslim schools having
bad kids too, remember they didn't come in as good kids. They
came in as public school kids."
More Islamic knowledge in Muslim schools
Children tend to be more exposed to Islamic knowledge in Muslim schools.
"I know a lot of Canadian-born brothers and sisters who have been
to public schools [and] have a big problem learning Arabic Duas and
Quran, and sometimes there is also a difference in the way they think
about Islam or certain things," says Taha Ghayyur, former president
of the Young Muslims of Canada, an Ontario-based youth organization.
But others, like Shabbir Mansuri, founding director of the Fountain
Valley, California-based Council on Islamic Education, see the Islamic
knowledge offered by many Muslim schools as limited.
Mansuri has three daughters. Muslim schools were not available in his
area for his two older children when they were growing up. But they
were for his youngest daughter, who attended one.
While he acknowledged that, "she was able to learn Surahs [and]
verses from the Quran," he adds, "but did the school make
a difference in the thinking and understanding of those Quranic verses?
The answer is no."
Many Muslim schools are disorganized
Regardless of the comparatively healthier environment, many Muslim schools
continue to be disorganized.
said sticking to rules and starting and ending classes on time, for
example, are a problem for many of these schools.
Another difficulty is staff turnover, which is due to two other problems:
poor wages for teachers and culture clashes at the administrative level.
Poor wages for teachers in Muslim schools
Alkhateeb pointed to the "horrible" wages teachers are offered
at most Muslim schools as part of the explanation for staff turnover.
Many Muslim schools struggle to stay open and in some cases, rely mostly
on private donations apart from the fees they collect. They also depend
on the good intentions and Islamic spirit of Muslims like Emerick who
are willing to teach at low salaries. Explaining his reason for choosing
to teach at a Muslim school over a public one which pays better, Emerick
"I couldn't justify to myself going to a school every morning in
which I would not be allowed to mention Islam and its truth. I couldn't
bring myself to go to a school and teach a bunch of students useful
worldly knowledge when I know that later that day they will be getting
drunk, dancing, having premarital relations, swearing, smoking and such.
Who would I be making stronger? If I don't teach in a Muslim school,
then someone else will have to be found and the children may not benefit
from my experience and enthusiasm for the Deen."
An overall bad administrative model
A top-down leadership approach, imported from "back home"
versus a more team-oriented, North American-based horizontal leadership
approach, is also cause for clashes in many Muslim schools.
Alkhateeb explained that in the first approach, a good leader is considered
someone who bosses everyone around, without consultation. This, in fact,
is seen as a drawback. In the second case, consultation is part of the
process, and the head of an organization engages in this with fellow
workers. It is interesting to note that the latter method has roots
in Islam and is known as Shura or conducting all affairs by consultation.
This culture clash in leadership perception leads many Muslim school
teachers to quit in frustration, she said.
The cost of Muslim schools-two views
One problem many parents complain about is the high tuition fee of Muslim
schools. In fact, cost is in some cases the defining factor in whether
or not a child goes to a Muslim school or not.
While there are families who cannot afford to send their kids, Emerick
argues that, "most Muslims in the suburbs own houses, multiple
cars, take vacations to Pakistan or Syria and wear the best clothes.
Many Muslim schools discount their official rates for true hardship
cases. The school I work at has about 15 free students out of a
total population of 70 students!"
"What is more expensive? Paying a little and having a better chance
your child will make it to Jannah, or saving a measly sum and crying
in twenty years when you realize your child is not a Muslim and doesn't
care about anything except what you did earlier, namely money?"
Academic standards: how do Muslim schools
"Most of the Muslim schools have not developed to the point of
being comparable academically to a well-run Christian private school
or Jewish private school for that matter," said Alkhateeb.
But not all Muslim schools fit this description. Aqsa school for girls
in Chicago is one example. It offers schooling for girls only from grades
4 until 12, and education for boys at the elementary level.
According to Khawla Nassar, an Arabic and Religion teacher at the school,
their graduates have gone on to Harvard and Yale, have pursued medicine,
law, or have continued seeking higher degrees even after getting married
and having children.
Their experience at the Muslim school, "instilled in them the value
of education," she explains.
Do Muslim schools create insular children?
Some parents fear their kids will become closed and insular if they
attend a school of Muslims only. A mother at one of Sound Vision's message
boards on Parenting writes: "...I have seen many children who went
to Islamic schools who cannot interact with their American neighbors.
They feel shy or feel like they cannot talk to them. I don't want my
child going through that. I want her to be able to interact with all
the children here in the US."
But Emerick strongly rebuts this notion.
"Do Muslim kids who attend Christian schools in Pakistan have any
danger of becoming closed to their society? Are Jewish kids who
attend Jewish schools in America somehow socially stunted or unable
to cope with American society?" he asks.
"No and no," he answers.
Putting the problems in Muslim schools
For all of their different opinions about this issue, everyone interviewed
for this article expressed strong support for Muslim schools.
Mansuri says parents must devote more than just money occasionally to
support Muslim schools. They must devote time and commitment as well.
Alkhateeb said the problems are, "a necessary element of the eventual
excellence of Muslim schools. I think the Muslim schools are on the
letter "H' on a scale of A to Z. H stands for How To. They're still
learning How To. And that's okay."
"The public school system is never going to be everything that
practicing Muslim parents want it to be for their children," she
adds. These parents want every aspect of a school to be Islamic: its
ethics, raison d'etre and the style in which teachers are motivated.
Some of the problems in public schools include chronic misinformation
textbooks, the issue of food, clothing for physical education, proms,
dances and other social events.
It all starts in the home-parents' responsibility
But what is often disregarded in the whole debate is the role parents
and the family play in a child's Islamic development, which is much
more important, many say, than which school the child attends.
"We're asking Muslim schools to perform the tasks that we as parents
are supposed to perform," says Mansuri. "The Muslim schools
are not supposed to be substitutes for parental responsibility."
"Muslim schools are not an answer," he adds. "An Islamic
environment that incorporates all the principles of Islam is an answer.
If I succeed in doing that gradually then I would have an option of
sending them to Muslim schools and/or public schools."
With regards to the dangerous environment found in many public schools,
Alkhateeb said, "the public school is not the reason for Muslim
kids getting into drugs, alcohol and wild dating. The reason is that
the parents of these Muslim kids have not developed a secure relationship
of knowledge and trust and humility."