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Debra, USA - wrote on 8/21/2003 5:53:42 PM
Comment:I am a christian woman married to a very good muslim man. Your article on a good muslim husband described my husband exactly. He lives by Mohammeds example everyday. And this makes me work harder to be the best wife to him I can be. Thank you for the article it was very good.
Mary Juliet de Real, Dubai UAE - wrote on 8/19/2003 3:35:11 AM
Comment:Dear Ms Elizabeth Ali,
Be patient in life still. Maybe your post husband is not really for you because if he does, no matter what happens he is on your side. Try to be positive in life still. You will find soon your real lifelong partner. Dont regret about this past relationship, it is best that you discovered all their traits at an early stage. Though it is much painful, Allah is always with us to help us recover in all the tests he is giving us. This is only a reminder that your belief in God should be the most high. To sacrifice your love for a man is nothing, but to turn to God for strength & guidance is everything & this is where life lies. Just take care of your son, mould him into a better person & if possible, try to attempt to live the life as what God has commanded.
elizabeth ali, monticello ny - wrote on 8/11/2003 6:39:00 PM
Comment:i sponsored my husband and his three children from pakistan. i am a catholic and believe we are all God's children. i sacrificed and brought these 3 children to the usa and to reunite them with their father. they had lost their mother 3 years before. i welcomed them into my home. i treated them like my own children. i got paid back with my husband being verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive. his children callled me the filthiest names and lied about me to their father. they have destroyed my marriage and alientated my husband's affection. the daughter even told me her father married me for 4 green cards. i have a son with my husband who is now living without his father. these children are 23, 21 and 16. they have been in the usa for 5 years.our marriage is headed for divorce. we are separated. because of my husband's children manipulation we have not had a sexual relationship for 4 years. my husband's daughter has been arressted repeatedly for stealing and passing bad checks. she has lied to the police about me. i was arressted for harrassing her. i haven't seen her in 13 months.
the charges were dropped because their wasn't any evidence. the daughter has become involved with drugs, alcohol and older black men who have been in prison. she is currently working as a prostitute. my estranged husband and her two brothers refused even to talk to her. meanwhile i have a$75,00.00 bond on my through immigration. these people have done some serious damage to my life. apparently these are not good muslims. they give muslims a bad name.
my estranged husband's lack of appreciation for my sacrifices and his approval of his children' s behavior boggle the mind. thank you for a glimpse into what a good muslim husband should be. unfortunately , i married the abusive tyrant that has no morals.
mohamad obeidur rahman, india - wrote on 7/26/2003 11:47:16 PM
Masha Allah your articles are very helpful. Please try to quote Hadith numbers which is very important for person who dont believe.
jallaluddin, india - wrote on 7/22/2003 6:37:07 AM
Comment:jazakallah for them to show the islamic ideology on relationship of husband & wife,
it is very important relationship to built a strong ummah of prophet to whom we live.
zajakallah once again
WilL NiKah SoOn, Mataram - wrote on 6/27/2003 3:08:07 AM
Comment:Alhamdulillah this article give me a vision about marriage life. Jazakallah khairan katsiraa
Aishah, australia - wrote on 6/19/2003 10:10:05 PM
Comment:may Allah reward the people that have put this information together! mashallah it was excellent. i am MORE than pleased to say that when comparing my husband to this article he is basically an ideal husmand! alhamdulillah that Allah has given me such a good man. Subhanallah how can we ever reply Allah for what He has given us?
ANESAH, USA - wrote on 6/5/2003 5:26:41 PM
Comment:THIS ARTICLE WAS GREAT! IT MADE ME FEEL THAT OUR RELIGION IS SERIOUSLY MISUNDERSTOOD WHEN IT COMES TO THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE. MORE PEOPLE SHOULD BE AWARE OF HOW A MARRIAGE REALLY SHOULD BE. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK SOUNDVISION!
Tariq, USA - wrote on 5/22/2003 3:24:53 AM
Comment:yes this has really helped alot. the marriage is much better if it is Islamically... lol my wife posted here too. I encourage everyone to be nice to their spouses and live the islamic way... not the cultural way.
Tahira, USA - wrote on 5/22/2003 3:13:52 AM
Comment:Great website, i think if me and tariq follow these rules our marraige will be very successfull, and we can live happily ever after. I would recommend this website to every one. It's really great, it convinced us to love each other more and show more affection for each other. So really great stuff here. so we r the best couple now i gotta say. :)