Page url: http://www.soundvision.com/info/Islam/marriage.ideal.asp
1, 2, 3, 4, 5
heena, london - wrote on 7/9/2010 7:24:43 PM
Comment:asa to all my muslim brothers and sisters. This is a great article i will make sure my husband reads it. I have been married for three years and have two gorgeous children mashallah. But i am not happy in this marriage. My husband prays all his salahs but he does not trust me and ever do is arguee. I be up in the morning at 5 and sleep at bout 2 i look after my kids who are twins and cook for my husband. I never recieve any help from him instead he thinks i sleep during the day wheile his at work. Im really depressed bout my marriage can sum1 advise me on wat they think i should do? Thanks
Cecile, Netherland Antilles - wrote on 7/5/2010 7:04:32 PM
Comment:Very informative. My husband converted to muslim some years ago. And I don't see much of those qualities in him. We have had some ups and down in our marriage and I know they really challenge our relationship. I have made some bad decision sometimes. And so did he. I am always ready to forgive because I love him but he holds everything that he thinks about against me. He has even been unfaithful or have and still have relationship with someone else but tells me friendship but not sexual. But he still goes to prayers and say he is a good muslim. And he does that because I am not a muslim. He said if I dont become a muslim he will leave. but I fear if I become it will be worse. He said he treats me that way because I am not a muslim. are none muslim wife treated differently?
imran, Hyderabad - wrote on 6/19/2010 9:56:24 AM
Comment:At the rick of bragging young Muslim brother and sister should understand that marriage is not just a enjoying certain period of life they should understand the responsibility of the husband towards the wife. He should always cop orated with each situation of the life atlest in this they should follows Islamic rules
Roshan, USA - wrote on 6/14/2010 3:47:37 PM
Comment:I was an Aga Khani (ismaili) and converted to right path during 1981, in Dubai. I was trying for my marriage and it was very difficult situation for me. as all my family members were Ismaili's and no body was ready to marry me,inspite of having a Bank Job and all the resources like wealth,luxury of life etc. etc. . Then I put my faith in Allah and married a Ismaili woman in 1989 and on wedding night I told her I do not believe in Ismailism and you are free to follow whatever you want without forcing her to change that time. After my marriage,by my good treatment towards her and by the WILL OF ALLAH, she also changed and now she has more knowledge of ISLAM, than me and Allah has given us everything you can imagine. Thanks Allah, you have given me more than I deserve.
alyson., london - wrote on 4/18/2010 4:12:44 PM
Comment:the goodmuslim should have riches in one place only,his heart,so that he will be a source of great wealth and blessings for his wife ,status and money are egolisic goals of satan when they are misused by weak muslims who upon becoming wealthy become vain an d haughty,full of arrogance like iblis,a humble pious manwho is kind caring,is the role model all muslim men should aspire to be
AISHA, ADELAIDE - wrote on 3/25/2010 2:04:36 AM
Comment:Very nice mashAllah
david dewit, montreal - wrote on 2/25/2010 11:14:39 PM
Comment:At first I thought you were talking about a christian husband or me (lol),we are all in the same boat doesn"t cost anything to be nice lovely ideals to strive for us all,God bless
Riswana, Sri Lanka - wrote on 2/9/2010 1:10:02 AM
Comment:Almight Allah bless you for whom wrote this article. Actually today increases the divorse rate due to lack of knowledge on Islamic Concepts. Insha Allah, Allah may need to help all the mumin to go in the right path of Prophet Muhammad Sallaahu Alaihi Wasallam, Aameen, Jazakallahu Hiraa
sarah, Toronto - wrote on 2/7/2010 7:03:25 AM
Comment:My comment is that if Islam tells them how to do all that then why are muslim opressed the most? Why are majority of muslim men such tyrants even after going for hajj every year and so called praying in the mosque? I married for only the reasons mentioned in the artical, an average looking man with less money and lots of responsibilities. That man turned out to be the worst practicing muslim man who is still considered very good at Toronto masjd.
The maulanas seem to cover up each others faults and not stand up for jsutice.
Unfortunately I know many ex muslim women who have left Islam due to all of these issues and no support from the community and the church has been wonderful to them. Do u blame them for crossing the line? I don't... Wassalam Sarah an ex wife of a pios muslim man in Toronto.
syeda, Bangalore - wrote on 10/16/2009 8:52:18 AM
Comment:Assalamoalikum brothers and sisters, it is a nice article most of the muslim who dont know to read and write or to operate the computer they will never come to know about this things and would like to suggest everyone who can help the ummah to know about this should give this knowledge to everyone in the meetings and gatherings also.
|Search The Quran|
|Something to Ask...|
|My Rubb, |
I beg of you good that lies in this night and good that follows it, and I seek refuge in You from the evil that lies in this night and from the evil of that which follows it. My Rubb! I seek refuge in You from lethargy and the misery of old age. O Allah! I seek Your Protection from the torment of Hell-fire and the punishment of the grave.