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A.A., Chicago - wrote on 2/5/2012 5:22:31 PM
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Comment:This is for Sh from MRU, the hadith that the woman should be married for beauty, rank, etc. is for what MEN should consider when choosing a wife, not the other way around. as you saw, a man is advised to choose a wife who is religious and has good character, BUT it's entirely up to them what they choose upon. and about true love being important to get married..there are sooo many marriages done for true love that end up divorced. getting married in muslim society isnt like that, the partner that you end up with should be a good, religious person and not chosen on physical character. that is too picky. do you want a person who is attractive to you but a bad muslim. or someone that you dont find physically attractive and is a good muslim? you have to change your thinking about love and physical attractiveness. you can find out all about that after your marriage.
Sh, MRU - wrote on 8/21/2011 12:41:03 AM
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Comment:Assalamoualaikum wr wb. I find this article very useful too and would like to clarify concerning the criteria to select a partner. It is said for a woman she could marry for : her beauty, her rank, her wealth, her religion, what is implied through this? that she could marry for these purposes, like she needs wealth, so she get married to a noble person for his wealth or she has wealth and she gets married for this to a noble man? please do clarify on this.
Also, it's true love is not a pre-requisite before marriage but it's also true we can't get married without love. If someone has a noble person as suitor but she or he doesnt find her or him appealing physically, should the person get married just because of her or his noble character? What about the accumulated frustration resulting from such situation whereby the person may be tempted to seek elsewhere despite her or his willingness to abide by the shariah, cos it's true we cannot go against our nature.
Bakary Sonko, Keneba - wrote on 2/21/2011 1:08:35 PM
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Comment:Alhamdoulillah!
Bakary Sonko, Keneba - wrote on 2/21/2011 1:07:41 PM
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Comment:Alhamdoulillah!
Bakary Sonko, Keneba - wrote on 2/21/2011 1:06:55 PM
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Riza, Jammu - wrote on 2/15/2011 1:40:52 PM
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Comment:asalaaam alaikum brothers and sisters...very nice article...
JazakAllahu khair
, - wrote on 1/27/2011 4:21:46 PM
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Comment:Marriage is important step in life and we should be aware of our responcibility toward this relation. Bakhshandah
altaf nazir, srinager - wrote on 1/25/2011 9:35:04 AM
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Comment:Problems of the selection among muslims is yeoman’s problem in the society that ends in terrific disappointment.If we go at ground level situation,divore is out come of miss-match.The persons which are tied in wedlock had not understood their habits,emotions, feelings. Before entering in wedlock they made castles in air and lives in romantic world but after mariage when they face real life, they felldown before real experiences.But there are many problems that lead to divorce which could have been avoided right from the beginning.
altaf nazir, srinager - wrote on 1/25/2011 9:33:34 AM
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Comment:Problems of the selection among muslims is yeoman’s problem in the society that ends in terrific disappointment.If we go at ground level situation,divore is out come of miss-match.The persons which are tied in wedlock had not understood their habits,emotions, feelings. Before entering in wedlock they made castles in air and lives in romantic world but after mariage when they face real life, they felldown before real experiences.But there are many problems that lead to divorce which could have been avoided right from the beginning.
FKarim, Fujairah UAE - wrote on 10/2/2010 2:41:41 AM
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Comment:Talking about value of marriage in Islam this article is very helpfull for those who have less knowledge about an Islamic marriage
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