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UmmNadia, USA - wrote on 4/15/2005 12:38:18 PM
This is a great article. JazkahAllah khair for getting to the point and writing in a manner that all can understand.
I see that some brothers and sisters commented that not all practice Islam this way. Of course we all know this, but that does not prevent us from sharing this knowledge with others and especially new muslims and the next generation. We must lead by example if we expect any positive changes to be made. If we continue to say "oh this is good...but it won't work", what message are we sending to those who look up to us?
We are commaned to enjoin the good and forbid the evil, so lets all make an effort to not only be muslims, but LIVE ISLAM.
Bakare sherifat, london - wrote on 11/20/2004 4:32:19 PM
Comment:Asalam alaekum,wow!!! this is a great write up and i think every muslim youth out there needs to read this,may Allah guide us.Jazakumlahi khaeran.
salman mohammed, ibadan nigeria - wrote on 8/19/2004 6:41:03 AM
Comment:may ALLAH reward you for your efforts on we muslims for a better islamic guidelines on marriage.
azimat olatunji, nigeria - wrote on 8/17/2004 10:46:52 AM
Comment: this is a fantastic write up may allah be with u.theworldwill be a betterplace if thiscouldbe followed
Kudrat Gbadamosi, - wrote on 6/25/2004 8:42:25 PM
Very apt and in line with Islamic teaching.
However in my opinion not a very realistic way to chose a partner whom a person intends to spend the rest of their life with.
You cannot know everything there is to know about a future spouse merely from talking and not spending a reasonable length of time in each others company. Each day has 24 hours - 12 hours of light and 12 hours of darkness. The same applies to human beings. We all have 12 hour of light in us and 12 hours of darkness. An individual's spiritual level in life determines which one takes precedence. The light or the darkness. Human beings LIE. No one in their right mind will reveal the negative side of their character or personality at such a meeting. People will come to the meeting describe themselves in glowing colors , 1 wedding later and one party finds themselves in an untenable situation.
This is why even though all muslims are aware of these teachings not all follow them when choosing a spouse.
aileru muh'd mutiu, Abuja, Nigeria - wrote on 6/25/2004 6:16:16 AM
Comment: This is a very good write up, May ALLAH make it beneficial for the writers and all the readers.
Mujeedah, Benue\Nigeria - wrote on 6/21/2004 6:23:36 AM
Comment:Jazakumullah khairan,First practical and unabridged piece on marriage guide ive read.May Allah Make perfecting our iman through marriage easy
Nasreen Gul, Rawalpindi - wrote on 6/18/2004 1:35:35 PM
Comment:Many thanks for providing us a very informative and comprehensive article which really helped a lot to clarify my minds on said topic. I pray all muslim girls and boys should be Allah concoius and be able to obey mentioned tips. Jazakallahkhair.
Al-Hassan Raufah, kaduna - wrote on 6/11/2004 9:26:20 AM
Comment:Jazakumlaahukhair, i wish all the muslim youths would be opportune to see this acticle This is indeed a great acticle MAY ALLAAH(SWT) BLESSED US WITH GOOD SPOUSE THAT WE BUILD A MUSLIM FAMILY TOGETHER IN THIS WORLD AND IN THE HEREAFTER. AMEEN........
hammed alao, ibadan - wrote on 9/21/2003 6:43:32 PM
you did a good thrashing of the subject. may the Almighty Allah may the reading of the article an evidence for us and not against us on the day of qiyamah by making our soul respond to practising it.